再版序言 9? Second Edition Preface 序言 11? Preface ? 第一章 做成功的淑女 15? How to Be a Successful Lady? 把快乐和满足当作成功 16? Happiness and Satisfaction Are the Keys to Success 什么是成功?16? What Is Success? 成功者需要具备的10种素质 17? 10 Qualities a Successful Lady Must Have 选择工作的2 2原则 19? 2 2 Principle in Choosing a Career 是否有特长 19? Discover Your Talent 是否有足够的热情 19? Where Is Your Passion? 是否对他人有益 20? Think of Others 是否对中国有益 20? Think of China 做会管理时间的淑女 20? Manage Time Efficiently 学会“一心二用” 21? Multi-task 收到的信件只看一遍 21? Only Read E-mail Once 只做你喜欢做并能做得好的事情 21? Focus on What You Are Good at 把事情简化 21 Simplify Life 学会把任务分派给别人 22? Delegate Duties 学会通过合理安排来节约时间 22? Practice Good Time management 随时记录 22? Take Notes Whenever You Can 学会说“不” 22? Just Say “No” 淑女的财富 23? A Wealthy Lady 做会理财的淑女 23? Manage Money Successfully 朋友是人生的财富 24 ?Friends Are the Treasures of Life 当遭遇挫折和失败 25? When Hardships and Failures Happen 填写你的幸运列表 27? Make a List of Blessings 健身 27? Work out 适时地痛哭一场 27? It,s Time to Cry 实事求是地分析情况 28? Prioritize Your Life 塞翁失马,焉知非福 28? Misfortune May Be an Actual Blessing 忘掉不快乐的事情 28? Avoid Unpleasant Memories 从失败中学到经验和教训 28? Learn from Your Mistakes 用想象力鼓励自己达成一个目标 29? Use Imagination to Help You Create the Goal 不惧怕衰老,只关心未来 30? Don’t Fear Getting Old, Focus on the Future 让自己看上去更年轻 30? Age Beautifully 保持年轻的心态 30? Maintain a Young Attitude 活到老学到老 31? Always Ready to Learn ? ? 第二章 淑女的外表 33? How Should a Lady Look? 美容与化妆 36? Beauty and Makeup 化妆的基本原理 37? Makeup 101 选择合你的化妆品 39? Use the Right Products 新经典羽西妆 41? Classic Yue-Sai Look 皮肤、头发与牙齿 43? Skin, Hair and Teeth 我的护肤哲学 45? My Skincare Philosophy 日常皮肤护理方式 46? Daily Skincare 照顾好手、肘部、膝盖和脚 47? Hands, Elbows, Knees and Feet 打理头发 48 ?Hair Care 护理牙齿和口腔 51? Teeth and Mouth 服饰 53? Clothes and Accessories 买衣服的诀窍 53? Shopping Tips “轻松衣柜”让你穿戴得体 55? ?“Easy Closet” Makes You Look Great All the Time 饰 62? Jewelry 挚爱内衣 66? Lingerie 应用流行来创建自我风格 68? Incorporate Popular Trends into Your Own Style 不同场合服饰与妆容的搭配 69? Different Looks for Different Occasions 职业装扮 69? Professional Look 晚宴的装扮 72? Formal Look 休闲装扮 74? Casual Look 个性化的金属装 75? Metallic Look 夸张的戏剧装 76? Dramatic Look 优雅的盛装 77? Elegant Look 新娘的装扮 79? Bridal Look 仪表与体态 80? Appearance and Posture 在日常生活中保持良好的体态 81? Everyday Exercise to Achieve Good Posture一整天都能做的运动 83? Exercise You Can Do All Day 羽西的塑身窍门 85? Yue-Sai, s tips for working out 身心健康 86? Physical and Mental Health 定期检查身体 86? Routine Checkup 学会缓解压力 88? Dealing with Stress 中国传统疗法 90? Traditional Chinese Therapies 健康的饮食习惯 93 ?Healthy Diet ? ? ? 第三章 餐桌上的淑女 99? How Does a Lady Eat? 在西餐厅吃西餐 101? In a Western Restaurant 认识西餐厅 102? Getting to Know a Western Restaurant 就餐姿势 104? Dining Gesture 酒的艺术 105 Art of Wine 自助餐 108? Buffet 鸡尾酒会 109 Cocktail Party 晚宴 110 Dinner 来一场西餐就餐的实战 110 Practice Makes Perfect 做一个精通的美食家 117? Become a Gourmand 和侍者的交流 120? How to Communicate with the Waiting Staff 得体处理就餐时的特殊情况 121 How to Deal with Special Situations 参加家庭式的宴会 124? At a House Party 接受邀请 125? Accepting an Invitation 到达时间 125? Arrive on Time 造访时的礼物 125 Gifts 参加家庭式宴会要注意的问题 126? Things You Should Keep in Mind 做主人需要的客人 127? Be a Courteous Guest 当合格的女主人 128? How to Be a Great Hostess 办一场成功的国际化宴会 128? Rules for a Successful Party 家中宴会的准备工作 130? What to Prepare for a House Party 女主人的魅力 131 ?How to Be a Charming Hostess ? ? 第四章 淑女的礼仪 133? How Should a Lady Behave? 公共场合的礼仪 135? Etiquette for Everyday Life 在公交设施上 137? On Public Transportation 自驾车 140? In Your Car 在剧院和音乐厅 141? At a Theater or Concert Hall 别让优雅与体贴分开 141? Be Graceful, Be Considerate 职场淑女 143? Business Lady 职场礼仪 144? Business Etiquette 办公室电话礼仪 149? Etiquette for Using Office Telephone 仪柬 152? Etiquette Cards and Letters 信件 157? Etiquette for Letters 相处之道 158? Relations 关于酒店 164? At a Hotel ? ? 第五章 淑女的家 169? Home, Sweet Home 家就是我的城堡 170? My Home Is My Castle 存储空间 171? Storage Space 房间的照明 175? Lighting 家的颜色 176? Colors 让家成为友谊的大花园 177? Entertaining Friends at Home 墙饰 178? Wall Decorations 地毯和地板 179? Carpets and Floors 音乐 180 ?Music 鲜花 180? Flowers 蜡烛 181? Candles ? ? 第六章 像淑女一样去爱 183? Women in Love 约会 184? Dating 一个好约会的构成 185? What Makes a Good Date 约会的规则 185? Rules of Dating 约会时的行为 187? Behaviour during a Date 分手 190? Break-up 淑女如何提出分手 191? How to Break up in Style 淑女如何面对分手 192? How to Deal with a Break-up 丈夫与妻子 193? Husband and Wife 怎样处理婚姻中的矛盾 194? How to Argue 分居 195? Separation 离婚 195? Divorce? 跨国交流 199? International Communication 与外籍同事相处 199? Dealing with Foreign Colleagues 同外籍人士交朋友 200? Making Friends with Foreigners 如何与外籍男士交往 201? Dating a Foreigner 同外籍男士结婚 201? Marrying a Foreigner 爱与性 202? Sex Etiquette ? 后 记 204 ?Postscript