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书名：The Art of Loving 爱的艺术
作者：Erich Fromm
出版社名称：Harper Perennial Modern Classics
出版时间：2006
语种：英文
ISBN：9780061129735
商品尺寸：13.5 x 1 x 20.3 cm
包装：平装
页数：124（以实物为准）

《爱的艺术》是德裔美籍心理学家、哲学家、法兰克福学派重要成员艾里希·弗洛姆的著名作品。对关于爱是什么、为何我们需要爱等问题，弗洛姆有着不同于一般人的诠释。《爱的艺术》并非是一本情爱圣典，而是关于人生意义的心灵哲学。爱是人类永恒的话题，是我们一生的课程，本书适合书迷朋友、心理学爱好者及英语文学爱好者细细品读。

推荐理由：
1.《爱的艺术》自1956年出版至今已被翻译成32种文字，在全世界畅销不衰，被誉为当代数一数二的爱的艺术理论专著；
2.香港大学推荐书单之一，无论对人际关系还是在情感处理方面，都给人以心灵上的指引；
3.语言地道易懂，思路清晰连贯，行文流畅，语句优美，对英语阅读和写作有较大的帮助。
The Art of Lovingis a book written by psychoanalyst and social philosopher Erich Fromm, which was published as part of the World Perspectives Series edited by Ruth Nanda Anshen. This book has shown millions of readers how to achieve rich, productive lives by developing their hidden capacities for love. And it explores love in all its aspects---not only romantic love, steeped in false conceptions and lofty expectations, but also brotherly love, erotic love, self-love, the love of God, and the love of parents for their children.
“Erich Fromm is both a psychologist of penetration and a writer of ability. His book is one of dignity and candor, of practicality and precision.” ---Chicago Tribune
“Every line is packed with common sense, compassion, and realism.”---Fortune

在《爱的艺术》这本书中，弗洛姆认为：爱不是一种只需投入身心就可获得的感情，如果不努力发展自己的全部人格并以此达到一种创造倾向性，那么每种爱的试图都会失败；如果没有爱他人的能力，如果不能真正勇敢地、真诚地、有纪律地爱他人，那么人们在自己的爱情生活中也永远得不到满足。
弗洛姆进而提出，爱是一门艺术，要求想要掌握这门艺术的人有这方面的知识并付出努力。在这里，爱不仅仅是狭隘的男女爱情，也并非通过磨练增进技巧即可获得。爱是人格整体的展现，要发展爱的能力，就需要努力发展自己的人格，并朝着有益的目标迈进。

The Art of Lovingis a rich and detailed guide to love—an achievement reached through maturity, practice, concentration, and courage. In the decades since the book’s release, its words and lessons continue to resonate. Erich Fromm, a celebrated psychoanalyst and social psychologist, clearly and sincerely encourages the development of our capacity for and understanding of love in all of its facets. He discusses the familiar yet misunderstood romantic love, the all-encompassing brotherly love, spiritual love, and many more. A challenge to traditional Western notions of love,The Art of Lovingis a modern classic about taking care of ourselves through relationships with others.

Erich Fromm艾里克·弗洛姆（1900–1980），新弗洛伊德主义的颇为重要的理论家，法兰克福学派的重要成员。他于1922年在海德堡大学获得哲学博士学位。主要著作有《逃避自由》《寻找自我》《西格蒙德•弗洛伊德的使命》《马克思关于人的概念》《对人的破坏性之研究》等。
Erich Fromm (1900–1980) emigrated from Germany in 1934 to the United States, where he held a private practice and taught at Columbia, Yale, and New York University. His many books includeEscape from Freedom,Man for Himself,The Heart of Man,The Anatomy of Human DestructivenessandOn Disobedience.

Introduction简介
Preface前言
I  IS LOVE AN ART爱是一门艺术吗
II  THE THEORY OF LOVE爱情的理论
   1. Love, the Answer to the problem of Human Existence爱情是对人类生存问题的回答
   2. Love Between Parent and Child父母和孩子之间的爱
   3. The Objects of Love爱的对象
    Brotherly Love博爱
    Motherly Love母爱
    Erotic Love性爱
    Self-Love自爱
    Love of God神爱
III  LOVE AND ITS DISINTEGRATION IN CONTEMPORARY WESTERN SOCIETY
   爱情及其在当代西方社会的衰亡
IV  THE PRACTICE OF LOVE爱的实践

Love is an activity, not a passive affect; it is a “standing in,” not a “falling for.” In the most general way, the active character of love can be described by stating that love is primarilygiving, not receiving.
What is giving? Simple as the answer to this question seems to be, it is actually full of ambiguities and complexities. The most widespread misunderstanding is that which assumes that giving is “giving up” something, being deprived of, sacrificing. The person whose character has not developed beyond the stage of the receptive, exploitative, or hoarding orientation, experiences the act of giving in this way. The marketing character is willing to give, but only in exchange for receiving; giving without receiving for him is being cheated. People whose main orientation is a non-productive one feel giving as an impoverishment. Most individuals of this type therefore refuse to give. Some make a virtue out of giving in the sense of a sacrifice. They feel that just because it is painful to give, oneshouldgive; the virtue of giving to them lies in the very act of acceptance of the sacrifice. For them, the norm that it is better to give than to receive means that it is better to suffer deprivation than to experience joy.
For the productive character, giving has an entirely different meaning. Giving is the highest expression of potency. In the very act of giving, I experience my strength, my wealth, my power. This experience of heightened vitality and potency fills me with joy. I experience myself as overflowing, spending, alive, hence as joyous. Giving is more joyous than receiving, not because it is a deprivation, but because in the act of giving lies the expression of my aliveness.