假如我们拒绝别人的爱,假如我们害怕痛苦和损失不愿付出爱,那么我们的生活就会一片虚无,我们就会遭受更大的损失。 ——佚名 If we judge of love by its usual effects,it resembles hatred more than friendship. ——[France]La Rochefoucauld(ethics writer) 如果我们按照爱的通常效果判断,它类似敌意而不像友情。 ——[法国] 拉罗什富科 (伦理作家) If what those in love exchange is not something pleasant but something pragmatical,then love will be decreased and wnull